At the State Fair with Grandma Debbie and Grandpa Tom, Scott, Darcie and Jamison
Konrad and Grandpa Tom at the Zoo
Grandpa Kurt and Konrad and Grandma Carol and Zachary checking out the scene
Daddy and the boys at the Apple Orchard
At the Apple Orchard waiting for a Hay Ride with Grandma Carol
Grandma Debbie and Mikey at the Pumpkin Patch
Konrad was very excited about his pumpkin
Mikey found a baby pumpkin
Zachary wants ALL of the pumpkins, or as he says "ball" "ball"
Exploring the giant pumpkins
Uncle Kurt reading with Zachary and Michael
We are busy and loving it this fall! The boys are running around and looking like toddlers and not babies at all! They are all starting to talk and spend most of their time chattering away and running around after each other. They love to go outside and run around with each other. They are so curious and into everything. All of them can say and sign "More", "all done", "bottle", "night night", "please", "thank you" and they all say "ABC" and some numbers too. Konrad is the most ahead with speaking and he clearly says, "let's go" and "go outside" or "change my butt"(not my favorite but very funny). He is starting to say sentences more often than one word and when you can understand what he is saying, it is always so surprising to hear how right on he is in his commentary. Michael and Zachary are coming along with their speech. They have animal sounds and basic words like "mommy", "daddy", "hi", "bye", "bottle", and "juice" down, but they have not advanced to putting words together or sentences yet...at least not ones that we understand. I have faith that they will get there and I try not to compare them or rush them. Physically, Zachary has gone from the most behind to the most ahead. He is running, climbing, walking backwards and his fine motor skills are also very ahead. Konrad is fast but clumsy and his rush to get things done can sometimes cause him trouble and frustration since he is prone to falling and tripping. Michael is a bit unsteady on his feet too sometimes, but unlike Konrad who runs anyway, Michael is cautious and careful about how he does things. Michael is determined and he will make his way to what he wants in the end...he is also very manipulative and so he often tries to get mommy or daddy to bring him to what he wants verses having to work hard to get there.
Their personalities are shining through these days. Konrad is lively and goofy and emotional. He is precocious and sassy and he asks lots of questions. He is extremely tuned in to his environment and he is shy and quiet in new situations or around new people. When he is happy and comfortable his comments, body language and facial expressions are entertaining to say the least. He loves to dance and play and wrestle his brothers...although he is still slightly prone to biting when he is frustrated with them. He is intelligent and interactive and very determined to keep himself a part of whatever is going on in the room. He does NOT like to be left out and his most challenging lesson is "wait your turn". Despite his fiery personality, Konrad is very attentive to the rules. When he takes a toy, he will give it back to his brothers with very little prompting and he knows when he does something that he is not supposed to because he always says "no no" right afterwards and then cries.
Michael is smart, sensitive, a bit dainty and delicate, and very emotional. He is cautious in his physical actions and very precise when he picks things up, reads a book, or eats his food. He is the cleanest eater I have ever seen, even more so than some adults I know. He needs to be comforted and touched and he relies upon positive feedback. Much of what he does is based on the resulting attention that he will get. He is aware of his brothers, but much more so of the adults in the room. He is very competitive with his brothers, Konrad especially and he will push himself into the center of anything that interests him. If we are reading to his brothers, he will come and push himself onto our lap and take the book. If we are showing his brothers a toy or feeding them a snack, Mikey will weasel his way into the center of the group. He is very much the flirt and he loves to get attention and he acts out to get it if it isn't coming. He has started a new phase of whining and dramatic whimpering that works on almost anyone but mommy. I can't blame people, he really is incredibly adorable with his cherubic little face, puppy dog eyes, and pouty lips...he can even whip up real tears sometimes. Its just that if we give in, he keeps doing it.
Zachary marches to a different drummer at his own pace and to his own beat. He is calm, gentle, loving and affectionate. He plays well by himself although he will play with his brothers or adults too. He is interactive and curious. He is not the least bit shy or hesitant with new people or surroundings. He will lay his head on a total strangers lap and smile gently, it is hard not to be won over by his loving smile. Zachary is a hider and a searcher and he is almost obsessive about looking inside cupboards, drawers or nooks and under furniture. I am not sure what he is looking for, but I suppose he will find it. He is repetitive in his actions and when he finds something he likes- a ball, a duck, a certain pacifier, a toy or a block - he clings to it and carries it with him for days. He is the most determined of my children and he gets what he wants through strength and repetitive perseverance. He has only recently realized that he is stronger than his brothers. He doesn't really have a temper like Konrad or emotional outbursts like Mikey so his strength is not really a threat but more of a benefit when his brothers try to take things from him. When he does do something physical toward his brothers, they don't even have a chance of stopping him...so they generally wait until he has turned the other way or gotten distracted to steal his stuff.
All in all, I find my boys, and they are truly becoming little boys, amazing. They are a wonder to watch and I love them so very much. They are affectionate and lively and they keep both Mike and I very busy all day (and sometimes all night) long. The past few months have been a delight. They are much more manageable in public now that they are walking and more distractible/entertainable. We take them on adventures every weekend and it is almost more much fun watching them see the world then it is seeing it for myself.






