Our family had a bit of a shock this week...Mike, daddy, got laid off for the month of January. Losing a month of our income is a huge financial blow to our little family since we have used all of our savings and resources over the past year that I have been off with the boys and we had already been begging favors and walking on very thin ice the past few months. It is also disappointing since I am starting my new job on January 19th and we really felt like we could see the light at the end of the tunnel of our financial woes. Plus the boys first birthday will be right at the end of a month with absolutely no income...happy-bleeping birthday kiddos....of course they don't really know the difference anyway so it is really only Mike and me feeling the loss. If I have learned anything in all of my ups and downs, it is that life is like that sometimes...it gives you lemons. I have always tried to be a good sport despite my inner worries, so for the lemonade...Mike and I have had a year of survival mode and it has not done much for our marriage, hopefully this time together despite having absolutely no money, will give us more than just worries and it will be an opportunity to enjoy each other and our boys together...also Mike sees the boys on weekends and then for an hour or so every evening, so he doesn't always see them at their morning best. This will give Mike the opportunity to be home with the boys for six weeks...he will be very ready to go back to work, lol, but he will know them well after this.
I really hope that we can just make it through these hard times and come out better for them...and hopefully richer or at-least financially solvent, lol...
But enough about us...
Mikey finally has two teeth, he had to work very hard to get that second tooth through, it was very stubborn. He is crawling like a maniac and is very fast and determined when he wants something...he is like a little wind up toy, he just keeps going back and going back toward whatever he wants to get no matter where you move him around the room. He is also a toy thief...he only wants what Konrad or Zach have. He spends his blanket time turning in circles and monitoring what the other boys have picked up and deciding if it is good enough to take...usually it is and then he's a little yo-yo back and forth across the blanket between them. He is really funny right now and runs around in his walker cackling a laugh that is quite muppet like when he gets excited, which is most of the time. He spends the day running toward whatever trouble he can find just giggling and cackling all the way...too funny.
Konrad is crawling finally, he is so cute with his little butt in the air rocking on his knees. He tries to go fast across the floor but usually ends up kicking his legs and looking lke a car spinning its tires. He just gets so excited! Sometimes he goes backwards, sometimes forward but he is moving. He is determined to keep up with Mikey. If Mike steals his toy, Konrad follows him to get it back. It seems like Konrad and Mike are alsmost always head to head trying to grab or eat the same toys or trying to crawl to the same place. Mike is faster and stronger, but Konrad gets there eventually and then he watches and waits for his opportunity and then he takes it right back....he certainly makes Mike work for his thieving ways.
Zachary is also crawling, he and Konrad could definitely be in a snail race together. They go at almost exactly the same speed. Zachary is more organized in his crawling. He doesn't get up and rocking horse like the other two but he is doing what looks more like a classic army crawl and sometimes an actual crawl verses Konrads flailing. Zachary's head sometimes weighs him down and his little legs will flail in the air to get his balance back and then he starts again. He is extremely passive regarding Mikey taking his toys. He just lets him and then finds another. He is so very, congenial. I usually take the toy away form Mike and give it back to Zach because I just cant stand him always crawling to a toy, finally getting there and getting it in his mouth only to have Mikey come and take it away and make him start the process over again. He needs some protection in a way that Konrad does not because he goes and gets his stuff back.
They are all eating cereal, fruit, veggies, yogurt and such very well and we are finally up to three meals a day. Their formula intake is starting to slow down a little bit, but we still go through a can a day. We have implemented a pretty strict schedule with two naps and it is finally starting to really pay off. They boys know what to expect all day long, they go down for their naps without too much of a fuss and it gives me a couple of breaks throughout the day as well. Last night Konrad only woke up once, it is a small miracle, so maybe the schedule will even make Konrad sleep better...it will be a little piece of heaven if he starts sleeping through the night finally...this whole waking up 5, 6, 7 times a night thing is really painful...so I am desperately hopeful that it will keep getting better.
Here is out new schedule:
7:00-8:00am Wake up, 8 ounce bottle, play
9:00 am Cereal and fruit (1-2 jar fruit each)
10:00 am Nap
11:00-11:30am Wake up, change/dress for the day, play
12:00pm 8 ounce bottle
1:30pm Lunch 1-2 jars of veggies for all 3
2:00-2:30pm Nap
4:00-4:30pm Wake up, 8 ounce bottle, play
5:30pm Dinner – cereal, yogurt, fruit
6:30pm Bath, change, read
6:45pm 8 ounce bottle then bed time
10:00-11:00pm Dream feed another 8 ounce bottle if needed
If wake up after 5am, give bottle and put back to bed until 7 or 8am
We really like it so far and the boys are doing well on only two naps a day....hopefully this one lasts for a while for us :)
Poor Mike, the world had one last HA HA for him. On Friday, we got 12 inches of snow and he drove in to work in the middle of it. Then he got his car stuck halfway in the road and driveway when he got home after his last day of work. He ended his day shoveling the car out.